Do you have many friends? The older we get the more precious they become. Ironically, that’s when we start to lose them. Making new ones? Hard as nails. Pointedly difficult. When we need them most, their numbers decrease.
One friendship we can count on above all others is with our Lord. He’s our totally trustworthy friend. Immovable in His caring for His own. That means you…and me! Makes a difference in our daily lives? Should.
But does it? To know He’s reliable and dependable. Not fickle or competitively jealous. Won’t drop us like a hot potato. He’s our friend. Jesus says–‘I no longer call you servants…Instead, I have called you friends…’ (John 15:15). We are Jesus’ friends.
Here’s a question. Can He count on us to be trustworthy and true? To stand up for Him? To be Jesus’ friend?
To be honest, sometimes. At other times, I’m less than resilient. Weak-kneed, lacking prayer and patience. Sadly, not always His best friend as He is for me. Don’t you wish you could be a better friend…to Jesus?
Abraham, the premier Old Testament patriarch, is far from perfect. Read his story in the early chapters of Genesis. Tells lies. Gives his wife into someone else’s harem to save his own skin. Somehow avoids ‘Divorce Court’! Nevertheless, in 2 Chronicles 20:7 the author writes this–‘…of Abraham your (God’s) friend…’ Abraham is friend to God. How wonderful!
Friendship. Something mutual. Give-and-take. Two-way street. A covenant bond, like marriage between a man and a woman. Commitment.
Not of equals for God is the only perfect One. He holds our hands, knowing full-well we need His constant help. Even as imperfect as we are, He cherishes our friendship, such as it is. That’s grace. With gobs of mercy. But we strive to be better. Don’t we?
Yes. And Jesus loves me enough not to leave me the way I am. Wants to clean me up. Wipe off the dirt and grime from my knees, which have wallowed in sin and shame. Nudges me, stubborn old me, to grow up and mature. To get out of my grubby, ungodly ruts. Thank the Lord, He’s not done with me yet!
On top of that, He won’t abandon me. He reaches out even when I’m in resistance mode. After all, He’s my friend. Yours too. Stays closer than a brother (Proverbs 18:24).
We can count on Jesus. Can He with us?
Thank you, Jesus, for your friendship. Amen.